Bedroom Talk |
Sex is one of those intimate moments when every day life is stripped off to reveal the person inside. Or for some other person, depending on whether the couple in question is trying to act out a fantasy or play different roles than the usual ones. Bedroom talk can play a vital role in our lives because it shouldn’t be limited to “Roll over” and “Now let me on top”. This is part of the necessary communication, but talking can also be used to underscore passion and to give new twists to the situation. Whispering sweet words in your lover’s ear is sexy. Talking dirty to her is arousing in a delightfully nasty way.
And don’t be afraid to talk dirty to your lover. We all feel the need to let go, to simply throw conventions overboard and stop being ashamed of the intensity of our feelings or of that feeling of doing something forbidden. In the privacy of our bedrooms we feel eager to spite the world by resorting to language and actions that are frowned upon in polite society. And that makes such language all the sweeter to the ears of lovers. There is a time for soft words of love and there is a time for crude words and hot passion.
Men and women alike need to feel from time to time that they are not birds locked in a golden cage, but real creatures with wild feelings. It’s blowing off steam on a different scale. And for this mood to really set in, you need to say the right things. There is no clear cut line between what’s appropriate and what could be seen as “taking it too far”, because this varies from person to person. Most times, your lover will let you know her self if you’ve crossed the line or if your effort falls short of the mark.
But the key ingredient of this whole thing is confidence. If you’re going to grab your lover, pin her to the wall or the bed and tell her in a husky voice something akin to “Bitch, I’ll do you any way I want and you’re going to like it!”, then you had better be able to display complete confidence. A “real man” who talks dirty to his woman and doesn’t take “no” for an answer must be supremely confident in order to make others obey him, even if it’s just pretending and you both know it.
What you need to remember is that you must come across as confident and in control, not as domineering and nasty (unless, of course, this is exactly what she wants). Women like to be impressed by the feeling of masculine strength, not demeaned by an average guy turned macho for half an hour. So use the words that go with the character you’ve chosen to make it sound realistic. Whether you’ve decided to be a gangsta’, a tough boss, a cartoon villain, a strict professor or just an all round tough guy, say what you feel appropriate.
And don’t just say things; act the part. Ripping her clothes off and showing off your strength is perfectly OK as long as she’s willing to go along with it. Unfortunately, if she starts protesting you’re in a grey area because you can never be sure if she’s actually turned off by your character or just improvising her own part. Use your judgement, but remember that it’s better to back off is she says “no” than to force her into anything. Have fun and stay safe.
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